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CLEAR -
FOCUS Model
You
may be feeling that you don't really have the time to coach
others to improve performance. After all, most of the changes
you make in your life just seem to happen anyway - such as
moving jobs or studying for a qualification. But sometimes
the change is forced upon you without warning or consultation.
Coaching helps you and others make sense of the adjustments
in attitude and thinking that you need to make to succeed
in a new context..
The
uncertainty of imposed change can leave you feeling paralysed.
It generates a feeling of anxiety or a fear of impending chaos.
The source of the stress might be a change of person, place,
thing or timescale. It doesn't really matter, the reaction
is the same. You stiffen up, become defensive and resistant.
If action is not taken and new information is rejected the
mind blocks things out. This is known as the brain's autopeietic
tendancy to protect itself from anything that it perceives
to be a threat to its identity.
"All
knowing is doing and all doing is knowing".
Umberto Maturana 'Tree of Knowledge'
Real
change can feel like a life and death issue. You have to let
go of something important to you in order to gain something
else. Emotions run high. Clearly focusing on a postive outcome
helps the body to see the change as non-threatening, creating
the ability to move forward.
By
taking action to do something NOW to change, you stop fearing
the unknown. As you become more familiar with your concerns,
the fears subside. Change is a process of becoming aware of
your feelings and redirecting them through a process of self-managed
learning - information gathering, capacity building and competency
development.
Applying
a "clear focus"
to learning and change
In
a coaching relationship it is important to spend a little
time before preparing and a bit of time after the meeting
to reflect. For example, you may need to clarify the ground
rules for how you will work together and there is no confusion
over the coaching role. Reviewing how things went in each
session could be valuable in learning how to meet each others
needs better next time. Times for the meetings/conversations
and what's expected between the meetings/conversations should
be clarified, particularly if action plans are to be drawn
up and followed.
The
following elements represent a coaching for learning relationship
that I use as a guide. It helps you ask clear and well focused
questions.
Clarify
issues through questioning
Link
ends and means by listening
Explore
options and new thinking
Assist
goal setting and
ability to implement
Review
the process and evaluate results
Facilitate
deeper conversation
Organise
the information so it makes sense
Create
caring relationships
Understand
the wants that feed emotions
Support
the development of new habits
At the heart of all coaching is change
and therefore learning. There can be no real change without
it. From the coachees point of view, learning is a by-product
of taking action to achieve their goals, develop their abilities
or deal with difficult situations.
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Applying
a "clear focus"
to the dynamics of change
The dynamics of change provide a framework
for approaching the coaching task in complex situations.
Top-Down -
clarity of purpose
This perspective reminds you to look
for what is important to the organisation that employs the
coachee. These are the criteria that will limit and direct
the conversation in order for the coach to understand and
communicate well. It helps to define the aim or purpose of
the coaching relationship. For example, the reasons for an
action could well be different from the reasons why you would
want to do it well.
Clarity about where the coachee is coming from in terms of
the criteria they use to define what's important to them,
will ensure that the coach focuses on what it would take to
fulfil the criteria. It may mean asking the coachee what would
be a quality outcome from their point of view. The job of
the coach is to link the coachees mission to that of the team
and organisation.
Bottom-Up
- informal relationships
This perspective reminds you how important
it is to build a rapport with the coachee. It's often about
finding something you have in common, maybe a shared interest
or a similar sense of humour. It's about making the coachee
feel more comfortable within themselves and with you.
The things to focus on in face-to-face situations is body
posture, paying attention, voice tempo and volume, etc. In
e-mails the focus shifts to sensitive language and explaining
your thinking. Matching the coachees style is obviously vital.
Treating everyone the same does not recognise or value their
diversity or promote inclusion.
Outside-In -
the reality check
This perspective reminds you that whatever
worked in the coaching context has to work out there in the
real world as well. This often means rehearsing for a future
possibility so the coachee is prepared for what reality might
throw at them.
I remember coaching one senior manager who developed a plan
for centralising the personnel activities of a large local
authority, and another who developed a business plan for his
organisation. Both proposals for action were detailed, rational
and made a strong case, but they were perceived to be owned
by them and assumed unquestioning compliance from staff and
appreciation from customers. They received neither. The challenge
for them lay in developing their proposals and implementing
them by engaging others in an coaching approach. They had
to think what it would look like and feel like for different
stakeholders. What would they want them to see, hear and feel
when the change was happening.
Inside-Out -
multiple perspectives
Different people see the same things
differently. Indeed, we are all motivated by different things
at different times. This phenomenon is known as 'framing'.
It is important that coach and coachee think about the frame
of meaning they give to words, situations and events. It is
then possible to explore what alternative meanings could be
applied and how useful they may be to solving the problem.
Sometimes changing your behaviour is
not possible unless you are prepared to think about things
differently. This is known as 're-framing'. One valuable form
of re-framing is to be solution rather than problem focused.
See Solutions
in Focus. Another is to appreciate what people
do well, and see mistakes as valuable sources for learning..
As the old saying goes "If
you don't like what you see - change the way you look".
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